Clarity Over Life Issues

Dearie, 

 

I trust that you've been well. It's in my heart to help others move towards achieving their life's success and I find that nothing is more important than having clarity over issues we faced in life. 

I would like to share with you a simple life lesson I've learnt over the past 30 years, that has helped me refocus my mind when I am faced with immense pressure.

I'm sure you'll agree with me that focus and clarity on the tasks at hand is the most needful to power through your day. We are faced with many challenges and distractions daily. Often, we get stuck and overwhelmed by  sudden unlucky events e.g. getting fired from your place of work or losing business deals. 

Perhaps the following feelings may surface in quick 

succession: 

 1. Regret 

2. Anger 

3. Panic 

4. Depressed 

 When I am faced with the above, I will ask myself this key question. 

Is this problem SOLVABLE or UNSOLVABLE? 

There 

could be two possible outcomes. It's either a NO or a YES. 

If the answer is NO, then we would need to take certain responsibility for our actions and face the repercussions. 

However, if the answer is YES, the solution is simple. 

Take active steps to resolve the issue! 

This tool allows us to dispel away the negative feelings listed above and focus on solving the problem. 

(EXTRA!!) Do you know what the good news is?  

 All problems are SOLVABLE, 80% of the time! It means that almost ALL your problems can be solved! How AWESOME is that? 

 Best Wishes. 

Learn from the Past

... Doing something we wish we hadn’t is an opportunity to learn about ourselves, who we want to be and change our actions in the future. Making a mistake is an opportunity to learn the most. 

Sometimes we can’t learn from the mistakes of others—we have to make the mistakes ourselves and figure out what works for us! 

 All of us are going through life trying to be the best version of ourselves, but if you’re carrying regrets from past decisions, you’ll be hindered in the decisions you’re making now. 

Learn from your experiences, and learn to improve on what you’re doing as you move forward! 

 Best Wishes. 

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Life Lesson: You can Rise Above Your Circumstances

 

Good morning dearie, 

 Have you ever felt that you're not good enough? 

 Or maybe, you encountered a hopeless circumstance and you felt that you'll never make it big in life. 

 Perhaps you're knee-deep in debt. Or you are that high performing employee who was retrenched without a cause and you couldn't understand it. 

 I know how all of the above feels. I have been 

through all these personally too. 

So, the key question is: Are We Losers? 

 Want to know an ABSOLUTELY LIFE-CHANGING fact? 

 Before you were born, you were part of two creatures. One is the big headed, small tailed, tadpole like creature called the sperm. The other is a monster spherical ball, called the egg.  

 The sperm had to fight stiff competition with 100 millions of other similar creatures when they raced at breakneck speed towards the final goal - the egg, in the mother's reproductive system.  Most of the time, only one egg, will emerge as the ULTIMATE CHAMPION. That one sperm was the ONLY QUALIFIED creature that is allowed by the egg to enter and be fertilized.  

 Guess what? 

 YOU'RE THAT CHAMPION!  

 This is a revelation and a life lesson that I learnt. I want you to know that no matter what happens in life, regardless the challenge, you're already a 

 WINNER! 

You have run that race, finished strong and you survived!  

 Now you tell me... Are you a Winner or a Loser? =) Go well towards your desired success! 

 Best Wishes.