The diary of Value


Value! 

What do you value in life? What you value will definitely tell what your life is all about.

Value is something held to deserve, the importance, worth or usefulness of something. That is something you cherish and take very important.

As a young dreamer, how much do you value your time? If you don't value your life, you can't value your time.

That reminds me of the primary school rhyme about time which says, "Tick says the clock, Tick tick, what you have to do, do quick."

You need to know how to manage your calender, else you won't have anything to count at the end of the day.

Remember, Time managers are destiny makers. Destiny makers are life changers. Life changers are world shakers. World shakers are record breakers. Record breakers are history makers.

What would you want generations to come to talk about you? Is it how you refused to generate great things or how you were able to turn history around because you valued it?

Cheers!

Goal Setting - Begin with the End in Mind.

In life, the first thing you must do is decide what you really want or better still what you are passionate on. Weigh the costs and the results. Are the results worthy of the costs? Then make up your mind completely and go after your goal with all your might. 

However, goal setting is achievable if you follow these six steps for effective and successful accomplishment. 

• You need to deeply desire the goal or resolution. Napoleon Hill, in his landmark book, Think and Grow Rich, had it right. "The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat." So, your first step in goal setting and achieving your dreams is that you've got to really, really want to achieve the goal. 

• Visualize yourself achieving the goal. Lee Iacocca said, "The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind." What will your achievement feel like? How will your life unfold differently as a result? If the goal is a thing, some gurus of goal setting recommend that you keep a picture of the item where you see and are reminded of it every day. If you can’t picture yourself achieving the goal, chances are – you won’t. 

• Make a plan for the path you need to follow to accomplish the goal. Create action steps to follow. Identify a critical path. The critical path defines the key accomplishments along the way, the most important steps that must happen for the goal to become a reality. Stephen Covey said, "All things are created twice. There's a mental or first creation, and a physical or second creation of all things. You have to make sure that the blueprint, the first creation, is really what you want, that you've thought everything through. Then you put it into bricks and mortar. Each day you go to the construction shed and pull out the blueprint to get marching orders for the day. You begin with the end in mind." He's right. 

• Commit to achieving the goal by writing down the goal. Lee Iacocca said, "The discipline of writing something down is the first step toward making it happen." I agree completely. Write down the plan, the action steps and the critical path. Somehow, writing down the goal, the plan and a timeline sets events in motion that may not have happened otherwise. In my own life, it is as if I am making a deeper commitment to goal accomplishment. I can’t fool myself later. The written objective really was the goal. 

• Establish times for checking your progress in your calendar system, whatever it is: a day planner, a PDA, a PDA phone or a hand written list. If you’re not making progress or feel stymied, don't let your optimism keep you from accomplishing your goals. No matter how positively you are thinking, you need to assess your lack of progress. Adopt a pessimist’s viewpoint; something will and probably is, going to go wrong. Take a look at all of the factors that are keeping you from accomplishing your goal and develop a plan to overcome them. Add these plan steps to your calendar system as part of your goal achievement plan. 

• Review your overall progress regularly. Make sure you are making progress. If you are not making progress, hire a coach, tap into the support of loved ones, analyze why the goal is not being met. Don’t allow the goal to just fade away. Figure out what you need to do to accomplish it. Check the prior five steps starting with an assessment of how deeply you actually want to achieve the goal. 

This six step goal setting and achieving system seems simple, but it is the most powerful system you will ever find for achieving your goals and living your dream. You just need to do it. 

Remember, the sky will always be your stepping stone when you begin with the end in mind in running with your goals with all sincerity. 

 Cheers. 

Your Mind Power




Success is simply a matter of doing it in the right way. Attempt to do it the wrong way and of course it will certainly fail.
Note: ‘it ain’t what you don’t know that’ll hurt you, it’s what you do know for sure that just ain’t so.’

Thus, an undeniable trait of success is persistence. Once you figure out what you desire, you then design it from your inside that is your mind!
As adults we are programmed with doubt on a daily and hourly basis… This is why greater success relies wholly on the removal of doubt. Remember, no amount of positive thinking will overcome/ overrule the tiniest fraction of a doubt.
Here’s something to consider that will demonstrate the power of your mind in achieving tremendous success…
There was a test carried out on Basket ball players and they separated them into three groups…
GROUP 1 – practised the free throw for 6 weeks to get it better
GROUP 2 - did nothing at all for 6 weeks
GROUP 3 - practised making the throw without the ball…
They had to do it in their mind… They didn’t have reality getting in the way so every shot was perfect!
After 6 weeks they tested them all…
Which group do you think won?
You knew that instinctively didn’t you?
Group three was the clear winner, because every athlete is taught to visualise before taking shots… Well those guys did it for 6 weeks without a ball.
So now and today I suggest you consider why you think then that you try and do things without making it happen perfectly in your mind first until it is certain.
When you learn to slow down, and make something you desire a reality that has happened in your mind before doing anything about it… Then you too will be able to utilise the power of UNTIL to fulfil your dreams and desires too.
Life change happens in a single moment… But you have to be present when that moment shows up… Luck is available to us all, but more of it is available to those who are prepared to grab it when it passes.
Note: You achieving what you desire from life is simply putting things together in the right way. Learn to structure your thinking and your success becomes inevitable.
Cheers.

Achieving Your Goals


Today, I want to share with you how to use mantras to achieve your goals (Remember, Goal is an observable and measurable end result having one or more objectives to be achieved within a more or less fixed time frame).

However, a mantra is a sound, syllable, word or group of words that is considered capable of creating transformation. A mantra could also be a driving fuel to help you achieve a goal. A mantra could be physical, mental or even spiritual. Most personal mantras consist of repeating your goal and what you want to do over and over again.

So, how do you use mantras to achieve your goals? 

Here are a few steps how.

1. List your goals.
You need to clarify your goals. What is it that you want to achieve? You have to be specific about what you want to achieve and attach a specific time to each of your goal. Could it be getting married by the age of 20, or riding your own car by the age of 25 or achieving your first million dollar by the age of 30, or is it you want to own your first property five years after you start working.

Note: You must have a written down goal before clarity. By the way, if you don't have any written goal, it's not too late to develop one. Just look inward and write down those things that comes to you naturally and you have glare to build on.

2. Write down the reason for wanting to achieve that goal.
Why do you want to ride your own vehicle by age 25 or become a millionaire by the age of 30? Do you want to achieve a sense of financial security? You need to discover the purpose that will help drive you in achieving your desired goal. This purpose will be your motivation to work harder towards achieving your goals.

3. Stick your list somewhere you can see them.
Put your list somewhere conspicuous. It could be at your mirror or your dressing table so that you will be able to see it everyday. Remember, seen it everyday will drive you towards achieving your goals.

4. Repeat your mantra now.
If an obstacle comes in your way, repeat your mantra. You want financial security? If you still need convincing, look back at that list that you have just written. You have written strong enough reasons to force you to get back up and start working again.

Make your whole life your own personal mantra. Remember to be persistent in upholding your mantra and great rewards are sure to follow.
Cheers.

LOVE!!!



Endless Possibility

Have you considered, what makes life worth living is a sense of possibility.
When you wake up each day, you can mold your destiny, you can create new realities, you can set new directions, you can make things happen.  Unfortunately, too many people wake up each day thinking about all the bad stuff that happened yesterday and previous days.

Do you see how fruitless and futile this can be?  

Unfortunately, so many people get stuck in that pattern and they really cannot make the best and most out of the opportunity each new day gives them.  

If you want to live every day with the maximum amount of success, maximum amount of happiness and enjoyment, focus on the realm of possibilities that each day presents you.

Each day is an opportunity.  

Don’t waste it thinking back about stuff you can’t control or stuff you can’t change.  Don’t flush progress down the toilet by thinking about things that happened, or things you should or shouldn’t have done.  

Take the lesson from it, and move forward with a renewed sense of what you can improve and change in the future.

Success is in YOU



YOU can achieve success in any area of life in just a few years, with any information in this process you are exposed to:

Remember...

* It doesn't matter how many times you've tried and failed before, whatever has happened has happened because you did not have a simple structured thinking process which cleaned away the doubts...

* It doesn't matter if you have NEVER been able to 'try' and succeed before. It may in fact be easier if you've always procrastinate...  

* It doesn't matter what position you are starting from, people just like you have started from being on the streets to becoming a success... 

* It doesn't matter what other so-called "experts" say... the truth is you are naturally successful, and you don't need to work at thinking positively all of the time...

If you are SERIOUS about wanting to create wealth, health, the perfect partner, bring an end to pain, remove depression, become financially free... Then, you can start by simply been an hard-working person in whatever career you find yourself!

Cheers. 

Your Subconscious Mind



The subconscious mind had unlimited power and we can literally achieve anything we want with it, w
ith surrounding positive people, images or even sounds, your subconscious mind will remember and you will be reminded of your goals often. This will result in a focused mind, with the capability of removing all distractions and ultimately turning your thoughts into reality.

However, going through life without knowing your goals is like taking a train without knowing where it is going. Goals need to be precise and detailed, not just “ I want to be rich or be the best in my chosen career!”.  A timeline is also needed for that extra fuel to pull you through.  When you have a goal that is strong and intense enough, your subconscious will always find a way to help you achieve it.  If you have a highly emotional purpose behind your actions, you will be more inspired to do whatever it takes to achieve your dreams.

Thus, Self esteem is the backbone for any success strategy. Confidence usually comes before success.  The power of the subconscious mind cannot be truly explored if you are always negative and pessimistic.  Avoid negative questions such as “ why do bad things happen to me?”, “Why can’t I be smarter, like he is?” or “ why do I keep failing to achieve my goals in life?” or "why are mine different?".  This will lead to self-destruction in terms of mental and emotional functioning.

Ask yourself questions that require positive and self-driven answers.  Do not be surprised if your subconscious mind may comes out with solutions that you did not think even existed before you asked the question.  Examples of such questions are “What can I do to get that promotion?”, “How can I improve my memory?”, “How can I improve my relationship with others?” etc.

The problem is few people have mastered this few points and thus are not maximizing its endless potential but am optimistic that as many that will read through this write up will find it impactfull.

Cheers. 

A Better You

Lesson #1: Your beginnings do not determine your endings.

A lot of us came from very humble beginnings, and was not provided with a hand up.  

Your parents might want the best for you and appreciate your God's giving talent, idea etc, but might not have the money to invest in your beautiful ideas.  

Moreover, you might be saddled with the psychological consequences of being given up at birth.  

Remember, we all have to live with the reality that we may not be born geniuses, rich, or naturally blessed.  

In fact, many of us are born into really harsh family lives.

But all that doesn’t matter if we believe in the power of our dreams. 

If people with much less resources managed to succeed, we can choose to do so too.   

Success is measured not by what advantages you began with but how far you got with the hand life dealt you. 

Don’t ever use your humble beginnings as an excuse for your inability to achieve success.


Lesson #2: Personal passion is more important than money

A case study of Steve Job of blessed memory.

Steve was taught by his adoptive father to be passionate about craftsmanship and engineering.  

His father encouraged his sense of curiosity.  

These were precisely the traits that enabled Steve Jobs to become a technology evangelist.  

While the technology he was developing wasn’t exactly new, the level of drive, passion, and unwillingness to compromise made Apple products stand apart from the competition.   

It is worth noting that Steve Jobs wasn’t as driven by money as much as his sense of curiosity and discovery.  

If you’re struggling to succeed, you can do well by shifting your focus from merely making money to making a difference. 
Note: this phrase is nothing to today's generation but you can still choose to be different in your world (very important).

By focusing on your passion, you can achieve more things and financial payoffs normally aren’t that far behind. 

If you are driven mostly by the need to make money, it would be too easy for you to get discouraged and lose heart when setbacks appear. 

When you are driven by passion, you are more likely to overcome challenges.

Lesson #3: You don’t have to be first to succeed

Almost all the technologies that made Apple a household name were, in fact, pioneered by other companies.  

Everything from the graphical windows-based interface of the Macintosh to its mouse pointing device to the portable digital music playing capabilities of the iPod to the touch interface of the iPhone were existing technologies.  

What Jobs brought to the table was he had the sense of urgency needed to turn ‘laboratory technology’ into disruptive technology that really changed how people interacted with and used electronic devices.

This is a powerful personal trait to copy because it is too easy for us to get discouraged by the fact that competitors are already doing what we want to do.  

In fact, they already have introduced solutions to the problems we want to solve.  Steve Jobs’ story shows that being a latecomer doesn’t matter.  

Just because other people came ahead of us doesn’t mean we can’t beat them. 

What matters is that you have the sense of urgency to give your customers/clients the value they deserve. 

A lot of the technologies Apple engineered into their products existed but were either too exotic, too expensive, or too clunky.  

Steve Jobs focused on boosting user experience so much that he pulled out all the stops in making Apple products intuitive, easy to use, efficient, and modern-looking.

Steve Jobs’ personal story teaches us that it doesn’t matter where we come from, how much we start with, or how other people perceive us when we first start out. 

What matters is the level of passion we have for our dreamsour willingness to pursue our dreams, and our open-mindedness.

Genius, it often turns out, is not based strictly on intelligence but passion and relentlessness in finding better solutions.

86,400 SECONDS - Make a Difference.



Hallos Hallos GirlsAffair,

Another week has emerged and we are all ready for the usual hustling and bustling, making ends meet, meeting targets set for ourselves, families and companies where we earn our daily living. Whao! It's a whole lot to contend with but the good thing is you can surmount it all, if only you can learn to pause often and think outside the box...

Always remember, there are 86,400 seconds in a day. Have you ever pounder on this at all? How will you use them?

So many of us get seduced by busyness into thinking that "a day doesn't matter." And that we have so many more left.


Then, we POSTPONE our lovely vision, pursuit of happiness, dreams, desires and life goals. To some fantasy period in the future when we have more time, energy and confidence.

Time is a THIEF. It steals the precious seconds of this very day like a bandit on a violent rampage. And we NEVER get those 86,400 seconds back. Never Ever. Did you get the gist...

Let's be real. Your days are your life in miniature. And as you live this day, so you're crafting YOUR life.

However, ia single day:


...you can make a choice that will change the rest of your life.
...you can put smile in someone's face and awaken the giant in him or her.
...you can start a project that will make you famous.
...you can begin a new habit that will revolutionise your health.
...you can face a fear that shatters your limits.
...you can forgive a person and rise to freedom.
...you can inspire a child and become their hero.
...you can discover an idea that rewires your thinking.
...you can invest in yourself and be the YOU of your dream(s).
...you can make a move that CHANGES OUR WORLD for the better!
Yes - you are that powerful - own it and don't let it sleeps away!

Cheers.