Season Greetings

Compliments of the season to everyone. 
Thanks so much for all you have done all year round. May God bless and prosper your works.
I appreciate you all for daily reading my post. 

Cheers. 

GirlsAffair: You Need to View this Clip.

RGirlsAffair: You Need to View this Clip.: An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns o...

You Need to View this Clip.

An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity.

You need to watch this video, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kh1nueKoiWE&sns=gp

Cheers.

Give it a Thought.


Reaching your greatest potential doesn’t require you to work harder by adding desirable habits to your already busy life. Instead you can work smarter by eliminating the routines that erode effectiveness and siphon off mental strength.

Cheers. 

Be Joyful Always

If we want to experience more than what a temporary state of happiness can provide, we must make joy our aim rather than happiness.

In today's social-media-soaked world, it's easy to look around and feel like your life doesn't hold a candle to all those shiny, happy people on vacation, enjoying coffee with charming friends, or buying a beautiful new home. It's hard to remember that Fakebook is just that — we're comparing the polished version of people's lives with our messy, un-photoshopped truth.

Are you rejoicing today? Today, let's take Yhemmy's challenge and declare "This is the day that the Lord has made. I will rejoice and be glad in it!"

Thanks A Million - You are well Appreciated


Happy birthday to me! 


It’s my Birthday and this has been a very important and special year for me… 

 Happy birthday to me! 

 I thought it a great opportunity to celebrate my DAY by sharing 38 words of astuteness like shining, flickering trick candles that don’t go out no matter how much you try to blow them out. And greatest of all you still get your wish. 

1. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else. Don’t diminish your achievements. Set your own standards. 
2. The journey is much more important than the destination. 
3. Educate yourself, form your own opinions and give yourself the freedom to change your mind. 
4. Be truthful, patient, persevering, modest and generous to all that come on your way or in contact with you. 
5. You can do more than you think you can. 
6. Stop caring what others think of you and begin caring about what you think of yourself. 
7. You are not your emotions. 
8. Everything happens for a reason. 
9. Remain slightly aloof. Do not let everyone know everything about you. Cultivate a mystique. 
10. Say YES to new opportunities, especially if you’re scared and excited. 
11. The tragedy of life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. It lies in having no goals to reach.  12. Get the most out of life’s experiences by anticipating what’s to come, being present in the moment and remembering it well. 
13. Try everything once, adopting what works for you and leaving what doesn’t for others. 
14. Be the master of your will but the servant of your 
conscience. 
15. Value freedom of expression and freedom of speech and respect everyone’s right to these freedoms. 16. Where ever you go, there you are. So take the time to fall in love with yourself. 
17. Every choice you make shapes your life. The 
small, frequent ones more so than the singular gestures. 
18. Remember this ancient Indian proverb: "if you conquer your mind, you conquer the world." 
19. Do more of what you enjoy and less of what you don’t. 
20. Perspective is everything and you can never try too many. 
21. Never apologise for being yourself and never use it as an excuse. 
22. You can only change yourself but in doing so you can change the world. 
23. Make a new friend or acquaintance every day. Keep an updated list of all contacts close at hand. Rich relationships are the DNA of a rich, rewarding life. 
24. You have permission to make your own choices and take your own actions. 
25. Surround yourself with the thoughts and examples you want for yourself, absorb them and become them. 
26. Make room in your life, let go of something old and you will summon something new. 
27. Strive to be humble and live a simple life. 28. Language matters. Explore the meaning of words and find the ones that empower you. 
29. Never underestimate the power of a positive thought. Wield as many as you can. 
30. Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good. (Thank you, Gretchen Rubin.) Indulge your curiosity, follow your inspiration and grow into the best version of you. 
31. Lasting change requires two things: a plan and the motivation to tackle it. Worrying does not take away tomorrow's troubles; it takes away today's PEACE. Don't worry, be Happy. 
32. There is real magic in our world. Delight in it. 
33. Love actually is all around. 
34. Life is one amazing experiment. 
35. There are no failures, only hypothesis tested where every result is a success. 
36. Dream. Imagine. Be your own fairy godmother. 
37. Make every one of your days a true masterpiece. Remember, the old saying: "it's not who you think you are that holds you back but what you think you're not." 
38. Every day you stay faithful, every test you pass or obstacle you overcome, you are storing up equity and blessing for future generations. 

Finally, remember the ‘Three Simple Rules in Life’: 
1. If you do not GO after what you want, you'll never have IT. 
2. If you do not ASK, the answer will always be NO. 
3. If you do not step FORWARD, you'll always be in 
the same CHEERS. 

The message is powerful... BE the kind of person who always takes action. LIVE life on YOUR terms - Make your life happen on purpose. Manifest your DREAMS, take action.  
 (c) 2015 - Olayemi Agboola  

Never Stop Being Your True Self 

1. LIFE SEEMS MUCH EASIER. 
Anytime you act in-authentically or make decisions that don’t serve your best interest, you become further detached from yourself. Life will seem more difficult, because you are in opposition of what your heart truly wants. When you stop thinking about what to be and just BE, that allows you to tap into the natural flow of the universe, and life will start working with you, not against you.
Don’t try to label yourself, over think your words or actions, or limit your expression; all of these will pull you back into the struggle that many people feel because they stifle their uniqueness. As a child, you didn’t even think twice about what to say or do, you just lived. Adopt that same mentality today, and you will feel much more free and in alignment with your true essence. 

2. YOU BECOME A GREAT EXAMPLE FOR OTHERS. 
Once you fully love yourself and have no problem expressing that to the world, other people will notice. They may feel jealous of you and try to bring you down, but most people will probably look up to you and ask for your advice. By becoming who you were meant to be, you will encourage other people to do the same without having to utter a word to them. 
People can just feel when others are comfortable and happy with themselves, and it opens up a space for other people to be themselves. Do you see how impactful this can be? If everyone acted in accordance with their true nature, our world would reflect a more loving, conscious, vibrant reality. 

3. YOU WILL ATTRACT THE RIGHT PEOPLE. 
When you strip away everything that no longer serves you and all the conditioning from your past about who you should be, you will start to notice that people on a similar vibration come into your world almost effortlessly. As this happens, people who you no longer mesh with will fall to the wayside, and friendships seem much more enjoyable. 
People who have a firm grip on themselves and know what they want from life tend to have deeper, more meaningful connections with others, because they have knocked down all the walls that once imprisoned them. They have freed themselves, and they naturally attract others who live with no limits. 

4. YOU WILL DISCOVER YOUR UNIQUE PURPOSE. 
Everyone came here to accomplish something different, but unless you really know yourself, it will seem much more difficult to figure out your mission. However, as you go within more and let that inner voice speak to you, it will guide you to fulfilling your destiny without you really having to try. The key to being yourself is to not try, not struggle, not demand answers, not beg, not worry, but just BE. 
Then, as you surrender to the universe and rediscover your highest self, it will become very clear what you came here to do. By not living authentically, you will probably work in a job you hate, thinking you have no way out. One huge motivator for being yourself should be getting to follow your purpose in life and not clocking in hours at a job that feels like drudgery to you. 

5. YOU HAVE MORE CLARITY TO MAKE BETTER DECISIONS. 
If you live in any way that goes against your soul, you will probably make hurried, poor decisions about your life and end up feeling stuck. Stepping into your own light will lift the veil that once concealed the better parts of life, allowing you to make more informed decisions that align with your vibration. When you give in to societal norms and follow the herd, you will probably put too much weight in other’s opinions rather than listening to what your own heart wants. 
For example, your family might want you to go to medical school because your dad is a doctor, and you know that isn’t your passion. But, you go anyway, because you believe that you will feel happier by satisfying them. 

Cheers.

Your Bigger Dream


What is your dream?

How big is your dream?

Do you have a dream that’s bigger than you? If not, why not?

Why not dream one size bigger?

Remember, you can achieve significant things—if you invite others to help you.

How have you done at finding people to partner with you in achieving your dream?

I believe your first step is to approach people who are already making a difference in their own way. Then you need to communicate clearly about your big dream. Paint a picture of the significance story you’d like to write together.

And invite them to join you.

Together, you can achieve great things and make a great change in your world.

Cheers.

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