Secure Your Time

A LESSON ABOUT TIME - from my good friend 

Kenya is two hours ahead of Nigeria, It does not mean that Nigeria is slow and it does not mean that Kenya is faster than Nigeria. Both countries are working based on "Time Zone".

•There's one that married as a virgin and 'waited' ten years before having a child yet there is another who had series of abortions before marriage yet gave birth after nine months.

•There is one who graduated at the age of 22 but waited 5 years before securing a job, yet there is another who graduated at the age of 27 and secured employment immediately.

•There is one who became a CEO at the age of 25 and died at the age of 50, there is another who became a CEO at the age of 50 and lived to 90.

Both worked based on 'Time Zone' and some just happen to have everything work fast for them.

Work based on God's timing for your life and stay firm in your  'lane'.

Even if it appears your Colleagues, friends, associates, younger one(s) might have gone ahead of you. Don't envy them, it's their 'Time Zone' yours too will come.

•Just hold on and be strong, it won't be long and everything is gonna be alright.

"I returned and saw under the sun that the race

is not to the swift nor the battle to the wise nor

riches to men of understanding nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance

happeneth to them all"

Ecclesiastes 9:11.

Trust God will guide u through the year, even as you rely on Him daily, because it is only HE who

makes everything beautiful in His time.

How heavy is this glass of water?

"A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?” Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz. She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes. ” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.” 

Remember to put the glass down.

This will add value to you

Imbibe these 5 into your daily plan.

#1. Shatter your mental limits/fears so you install a mindset that is undefeatable. 

#2. Release the past and unleash your highest happiness for this year and the rest of your life. 

#3. Get more real work done in a week than most people get done in three months (so you grow your prosperity, performance and impact). 

#4. Get into the best fitness and finest energy of your life to date. 

#5. Step into a way of living that is magical, so you wake up every morning feeling uncommonly grateful, generous and free. 

Best Wishes.

GirlsAffair: Habits Of Highly Successful Women - Part 1

GirlsAffair: Habits Of Highly Successful Women - Part 1: Men and women tend to think differently. Some say women think more with their intuition, and men are more practical. On the other hand, ...

GirlsAffair: Habits Of Highly Successful Women - Part 1

GirlsAffair: Habits Of Highly Successful Women - Part 1: Men and women tend to think differently. Some say women think more with their intuition, and men are more practical. On the other hand, ...

Habits Of Highly Successful Women - Part 1

Men and women tend to think differently. Some say women think more with their intuition, and men are more practical. On the other hand, to some people this is just a bunch of prejudices and a references from pop psychology. Whatever the case is or- whatever you choose to believe in- there are some things successful women do differently than those who are, let’s say, less successful. Even if you are somehow happy with your life choices, it is always useful to upgrade yourself, right? That’s why we made this list. We present you 15 habits that make determined women even more successful.

1. Make a brand of yourself. The times of having one profession for the lifetime are over. This is the time to think fast and think about the things you do really well. And the most important thing is- find something that will identify you as a brand. Do you write well? Are you a good listener? Do you find art amusing? Go for it. But be professional and think of it as your specialty. Educate yourself in areas you find unique, and ideas will follow.

2. Focus on the 20%. We will try to explain it like this: in today’s economy and all the unpredictable problems that can generally ruin your plans, it is important to know when the progress is actually happening. You see, when you have a lot on your mind, and many women do, you only see the negative sides. Sometimes you miss the good results and concentrate on the problems. Keep in mind that 20% of effort gets you about 80% of results.

3. Prioritize people. Sometimes in life you will feel too overwhelmed. When you’re good enough, you will have different chances to shine. However, you can’t spend your energy equally on many things. Try to see yourself in the future, and try to figure out what you wouldlike to choose for yourself. As hard as it sounds, it is crucial to your future success. Do you want to prosper financially or spiritually? Do you care more about the work you do or about the salary you receive. Choose your choice and go for it.

4. Try to evolve as much as you can. Remember that your learning doesn’t end with college. Back in the days, your obligations were to attend classes, but now that you are an adult woman you need to work on your education. There are many courses today on sites such as Coursera, that offer free knowledge for all kinds of professions. There is no reason not to challenge yourself in order to learn more.

5. Focus on solutions and not on problems. Let’s face it, problems are everywhere. It’s not that hard to find a problem anywhere you look. On the other hand, those who offer practical solutions are pretty rare. It doesn’t matter if you want to start your own business or you plant to work for someone else. Solutions are essential for every single job out there. It’s only up to you to bring them to the right person.

GirlsAffair: Skill Integration.

GirlsAffair: Skill Integration.: Greetings, I think we would all agree that learning a new and  potentially life changing skill can be pretty exciting.  But let’...

Skill Integration.

Greetings,

I think we would all agree that learning a new and 

potentially life changing skill can be pretty exciting. 

But let’s be honest here… 

There’s a huge difference between learning a new 

skill and actually integrating that skill into your life. 

In fact, this is the number one reason why people 

with really good intentions still fail to turn new skills into results 97% of the time. 

That’s where habit triggers can change everything. 

You see, it takes about 21 days to turn a new skill into 

a habit. 

This is the critical "make it or break it" phase! During this 21 day integration stage you need some way to trigger yourself into performing that new skill 

repeatedly until it becomes almost automatic. 

That’s when it becomes a habit, and that’s when you 

start to see results. Until then it’s just academic. 

So, now you know how habit triggers work and why they are so important to your success in life and in 

business. 

They are the secret tool that will get you from wanting to do something to improve your life, to actually doing it consistently enough to produce meaningful results so that you can start living a more successful life. That’s it for now!

 Until next time, live life to the full, 

 Yhemmy.

 

GirlsAffair: Think Outside The Box.

GirlsAffair: Think Outside The Box.: Yhemmy was on to something when he wrote... “Always the beautiful  answer who asks a more beautiful question.” So here we are...elev...

Think Outside The Box.

Yhemmy was on to something when he wrote...

“Always the beautiful answer who asks a more beautiful question.”

So here we are...eleven days into the New Year, and if you're looking to make history in 2016 rather than repeat it...if you want to make this the best year of your life, than you're going to want take stock of what's transpired.

1. What exactly have you accomplished in the first ten days of 2016?

2. Are you off to a fast start...or a slow one and why?

3. Have you followed through on your resolutions...or already betrayed them?

4. Do you even have a clear set of goals...along with a written, deadline driven plan?

These happen to be outstanding questions to avoid quickly losing this one window of opportunity to start the year in the best way possible...which is fast, focused and driving demonstrable results.

Hold these questions not as an opportunity to beat yourself up, but as a chance to find new insights and better ways to improve your performance.

Also, as you reflect on these questions...think outside the box.

It will help you to understand why you need to do things differently, and how to Challenge yourself to truly make this the best year of your life.

Everything Counts!