"I have no time" or "I am too busy"...

These are common responses that I often hear nowadays. 

Do you get these responses from people as well? 

Many people seem to be busy. But the time to read and attend seminars is essential, especially to improve our financial knowledge.

When it comes to investing or doing business, ignorance can be dangerous. 

However, for something that is important to us, we will surely make time for it.

So, I stop myself from saying "I am busy". 

It's not about having no time but about time management or having the need to find ways to achieve more or do things in a better way. 

This is a way to get more things done:

Allocate some time (let's say, an hour) for each task, really concentrate and get it done.

You'll be surprised how much you can get done within a day.

If not, it is easy to get only one thing done or not getting anything done within several hours.

When we plan our time well, we will have more time for important things in our lives.

We can spend more time with our loved ones and friends, have more time to read, relax, get adequate sleep, think and come up with good ideas and exercise.

Good time management improves our relationships with others, our finances and our health. 

It is always important to make each day productive.

"The bad news is time flies. The good news is you're the pilot." 

~ Michael Altshuler -

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Things You Do That Are Holding You Back From Being The You Of Your Dream...

 * You compare yourself to others.

Stop looking at others lives and being sad or upset about your current situation.  It causes fear.  Your life is “Your” life….its you.  You can’t follow their plan or their life exactly.  You are unique so make sure that your path fits you.

Shift your focus instead to where you are today compared to yesterday to get a more accurate picture of the progress you’re making.

* You wait for others’ permission

No one is going to come and tell you its time to start, or where to be.  Don’t wait for them.  YOU know what’s best for you. Trust your gut and your heart, live by YOUR standards, and you’re much more likely to create a life that makes you happy.

Once you understand that you are responsible for everything that has come and gone in your life you’ll realize that everything from here onwards depends on you as well.

* You are to worried about failing

If you really want to put a halt on your happiness.  Go ahead and worry about it not happening.  FEAR of anything is the biggest destroyer of your life.  It will control your actions and movement leaving you in a place and mental state that is very hard to get out of

* You wait for the “right” time

You keep putting something off because it’s not the “right” time yet. You need to make a few more improvements, get more experience, learn a few more skills. You wait for the economy to improve, the weather to get better or for a sign that you should start. This is just your mind playing delay tactics and winning. The right time is now.

* You expect results right now

Everything in life takes time.  Look how long it took you to be who you are today.  So why do we think that everything will change overnight?  Persistence and inspired action are the keys to getting your results.

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(Strange Reality) - Instead Of Waiting, Give It Yourself...

Hello Dearie,

If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of “waiting for others” is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin 

a relationship! Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it.

 At the start of a new relationship, you get everything you have been longing for, sometimes since early childhood: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy. 

 You think you’ve finally found your Prince Charming (or Princess Charming) and all your needs are fulfilled forever, “They lived long and happily ever after.” You wallow in the illusion that this new excitement will last forever, and that you don’t have to do anything in order to keep receiving this stream of love and energy from your significant other. 

Reality turns out differently. Not that after a while your lover loves you less, but that a big share of his attention and energy goes to his job, friends and activities he used to have before meeting you.

 You panic. What’s going on? Does he not love you anymore? Did you become ugly, fat, or boring? You try to find a reason why the stream of energy coming from him is weakening. You were used to feel 300 Volt coming from him, and now you have to content yourself with a lousy 100. 

 You decide that you won’t let this happen and you demand he continues to give you what he gave in the beginning. You are focused on what you think you are entitled to receive, and on what the other “should” be giving you. 

 How strange! Why don’t you focus on what YOU can give to HIM? Why be so stubborn to maintain this bizarre belief that everything you need should be given to you by someone else? Why wait for the other to give to you what you need? Why not give it to yourself? And why not simply give to the other what YOU would like to receive for yourself? 

 You have nothing to lose by this approach. But I can assure you that you have a lot to gain: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy. That’s right! Exactly the same things the other freely provided you with in the beginning! 

 YOU can give them to yourself, and to him. Giving is the only fail-safe way to make sure you receive. Try to understand this. If you have to wait for somebody else to give you what you need, you can wait forever and there’s a decent risk you will never get it. If you give what you need to yourself and to the other, then you have it both ways: once because you gave it to yourself, and once because you will get back from the other what you gave him. You can have your pie and eat it! 

 Why does it work this way? Because by giving something, you are tuning yourself to the frequency of that which you give. Let’s say, for example, you need attention. Instead of examining the behaviour, facial and verbal expressions of your partner, trying to detect whether he gives you enough attention, you can give attention to him! Ask him how he is feeling right now, how his day went, what he learned today, and if he met any interesting people. Show your genuine interest, and I bet he will be interested in you too. You give attention, and you will get attention in return!  

 * You want love? Give love! 

 * You want advice? Give advice! 

 * You need an energy boost? Boost up someone else’s energy level and in doing so you will feel your own energy rising! 

 * You want people to listen to you? Then first listen carefully to someone else who needs to be heard. 

 * You want more friends? Then befriend others! 

 * You want more respect from your children? Respect them! 

 * So, in order to get what you want, learn to give it first 

 * Instead of waiting for your significant other to give you love, why don’t you give love to him or her? 

 * Instead of waiting for your children to respect you, why don’t you start by respecting them? Be an example. 

 *Instead of dreaming of a wonderful job that satisfies your needs, try to be wonderful at your current job first! 

 * Instead of wanting your friends to invest time and energy in your relationship, why don’t you give some 

extra time and energy to them? 

 * Instead of waiting for peace and calm to come into your life, why don’t you create the silence and inner balance needed to feel the peace you long for? It’s all a matter of energy vibrating. 

By giving what you want to others, you are tuning in to the vibrational energy of what it is you want. If you want love and you give it to others, you are in the energy of love already. Giving love makes you feel that love and thus you then attract more love into your life. Giving attention makes you feel the attention. Giving respect puts you in the energy vibration of respect and you will attract more respect towards yourself. 

This works for anything you desire. You will not only get what you want by giving it, but you will also be much less dependent on others. You will feel the power of being in charge of your own life! 

Be inspired!

True Things You Didn’t Know about Men and Erections

I bet you do not really know your p*nis as much as you think you do. Trust me, these five facts will surely blow your mind. 

Do you really know your magic stick? Are you knowledgeable about erections? Well, this piece has some p*nis and erection facts that may blow your mind. 

(1) Too much masturbation can affect your erection. If you masturbate too much, you might have problems with your getting your p*nis fully erect. According to a s*x therapist guy who has not masturbated for a long time is more likely to have a stronger erection than the one that masturbated very recently. 

(2) Body size can affect erection size. Believe it or not your erection is very much affected by your body size. Men with obesity issues are most likely going to have erection problems too, because they will also have low testosterone levels. So staying fit is highly important. 

(3) Getting enough sleep is important. Simply put, more sleep is good for your erection.

(4) Erections are weakened by too much smoking and drinking. It has been discovered that many men who suffer erectile dysfunctions abuse alcohol and smoked too much. Step down on those habits and keep your erection. 

(5) Oral s*x can make the penis larger. Getting oral s*x can make the erection stronger and make the p*nis longer. So you might want to ask for one before making out. 

Feel free to pass on the knowledge. 

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It Takes a Positive Attitude to Achieve Positive Results

It Takes a Positive Attitude to Achieve Positive Results

 Note: Realize that YOU are in control of how you think and feel.

Your attitude determines the state of the world you live in. It is the foundation for every success and every failure you have had and will have. It will make you or break you.

Your attitude controls your life. But the good news? You control your attitude.

Attitude creates the way you feel about people and situations. Your actions are a result of your attitude—which in turn creates a reaction from others.

It is your attitude toward others and the universe that determines the resulting attitude toward you. Have a positive, joyful attitude and you’ll have positive, joyful results. Put out a bad, negative attitude and you’ve failed before you begin.

Basically, what you think is you get.

I know it sounds simple, but, the truth is, it is:

Where do negative attitudes come from?

Negative attitudes come from thinking negative thoughts over and over until they become part of your subconscious, part of your personality—they become habitual. You may not even realize you have a negative attitude because it’s been with you for so long. Once you have a bad attitude, you expect failure and disaster. And that expectation turns you into a magnet for failure and disaster.

Then it becomes a vicious cycle: You expect the worst, so you get the worst. Your negative beliefs are reinforced. So you expect the worst, and you get the worst.

So, how do you shift your thoughts and create a positive attitude?

It takes work, but creating anything of value takes work. In order to have a new attitude, you have to change your subconscious thinking. How? By analyzing every thought you have until positive thinking becomes habit. You’re merely replacing an old habit with a healthy habit, much like replacing smoking with exercise.

You can’t just stop being negative—you have to replace those negative thoughts with positive ones.

Some people would say, “But negative situations are a reality. They just show up in everyday life.”

This is absolutely not true. Situations are a reality, yes. They do show up, yes. It is your attitude that makes a situation positive or negative. It’s time for you to realize that you are in control of how you think and feel—no one else on earth has this power unless you give it away.

Take control of your attitude, your state of mind, and you take control of your results

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Single Most Important Equation for Success

Over the years, I've discovered thatYOU are the most important part of the whole equation...

If your foundation is not set properly, then it will be very difficult and challenging accomplishing anything throughout the day.

Throughout the day, you will face a lot of challenges, obstacles, and problems that will throw you off, so it's important to be prepared for it every single day. So start your day off by focusing on yourself.

My daily routine starts off with some meditation to get centered and grounded.

Afterwards I read all that I have accomplished the day before, and everything I am proud of... Then I write down my top 3 goals for the day... Then I replenish my body with 2 cups of water, getting some exercise done, and also getting some food into my system to get ready for the day... and If I have time, listen to some inspiring and motivating speeches from Jim Rohn, Tony Robbins etc.

The point is, you have to take care of yourself first. You have to start off the day taking care of your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual side. Once you take care of this, you will be better equipped to handle and succeed throughout the day and have the internal resources to get through ANYTHING that comes your way.

With lots of love... Be inspired. 

Two Categories

Your position in life is only relative not absolute.

When you are in problem, don't think it's the END, it is only a BEND.

In life there are two categories of people that are happy; the MAD and the CHILD... Be mad to achieve a goal. Be a child to enjoy what you've achieve.

Remember, there is no escalator to success only STEPS.

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GirlsAffair: Tips on Attracting Positive Energy

GirlsAffair: Tips on Attracting Positive Energy: How are you? I'd love to share with you 5 tips on attracting positive energy in your life today. We are all magnets. We at...

Tips on Attracting Positive Energy

How are you?

I'd love to share with you 5 tips on attracting positive energy in your life today.

We are all magnets. We attract. We attract the things we want or do not want. Whatever we focus on, will grow. 

That's why setting our energy right is extremely important. If we focus on the positive, we will attract the positive. If we focus on the negative, we will also attract the negative. 

So what are the ways some of the way to attract positive energy?

Positive Energy #1: Let Go of Your Past

Do you have a past that you are not proud of? It could be an addiction, failure or disappointment. Whatever it was, you need to let it go because you can't move on unless you let go of your old and heavy baggage. 

You may have done something wrong in the past but I would really love you to release the guilt because it is not helping you to attract the kind of future you want. Likewise, someone may have hurt you in the past. Let it go because that person is probably living a happier life than you are. 

Why torture yourself? Let it go!

Positive Energy #2: Stop Beating Yourself Up

"I am not good enough..", "I am never amount to anything..". Get rid of those thoughts because if you believe that you are not good enough, guess what - you are!

Instead, give yourself positive affirmations by saying, "I attract abundance!", "I am healthy!", "I attract healthy relationships in life" and guess what - you really do!

Like Henry Ford once said, "Whether you think you can or think you can't, you are right!". 

Positive Energy #3: See the Good in Others

It is so easy to pin point the fault of others and yet we failed to see the weaknesses of ourselves. If you want to attract positive energy, you must learn to see the good in others instead of their bad. 

You can do a little test by giving more compliments than criticism and I can assure you, you will see more positive results than ever. 

Positive Energy #4: Use the Power of Reframing Your Mind

When bad things happen to you, what do you do? Do you blame the people, weather, the dog, the government and your emotions?

It is not so much of what happen to us that determines our outcome. It is really about how we react to what happens to us that determines the outcome. 

Are you nervous when you are about to give a sales presentation? Good, because your nervousness is telling you a message that you need to prepare even more! Does your medical report show that you have high cholesterol? Then good, it means it is sending you a message that you need to start running or doing workout. 

By reframing your mind, you will be more positive instead of worries and hence, you generate positive energy that will attract positive outcome in your life!

Positive Energy #5: Wake Up Early!

Remember those days you could party all night and wake up in the afternoon? Yes please keep on doing this IF YOU WANT TO FAIL!

If you want to be a better person, waking up early in the morning is a must. You are able to start your day well prepared and you will be surprised with how productive you can be and how much you can accomplish. 

Morning risers are the ones who change the world. Not the late risers. 

Be Inspired.

Make YOU a Priority...

It is important that you make time for yourself--you can't help others if you don't help yourself first. What's needed is radical self-care:

Be deliberate in your choices. We can't be all things to all people. Sort out what's really important to you and exercise your right to say no. Saying no is saying yes to yourself.

Alone Time. Set aside at least ten minutes daily to reflect; make it part of your routine. Your priorities are always changing. If you don't take stock of what you need and want, you'll be operating from what worked in the past.

Brag to You, About You. Do you get stuck on what you didn't do rather than what you've actually accomplished? Give yourself the credit you deserve; you do a lot.

Be Inspired.