For You to...

PAUSE and POUNDER...

I don't know who this is meant for, I felt very strong to share the experience,
"I walked into a hotel and after going through the menu, I ordered some food. After about 20 minutes a group of guys and ladies walked in and ordered for theirs. To my dismay, these folks got served first. I watched as they began to eat and laugh heartily. I even overheard one of them bragging about how connected he is to everyone in the hotel and I felt mocked. I decided to leave. Unable to take it anymore, I called the waiter. He calmly told me: *"yours is a special order, being prepared by the chief chef himself. Their orders were prepared hurriedly by students on attachment because the top chefs are busy with yours sir. That's why they were served first. Please have some juice as you wait".* I calmed down and waited patiently.

Shortly after, my meal was served by 6 waiters. Unknown to me, the owner of the hotel (who happened to be an old long lost friend of mine) saw me when I entered and decided to surprise me. She changed my simple meal to a five-star meal. The party at the other table were shocked. They couldn't stop staring. Suddenly they were the ones murmuring, asking why they didn't get that kind of service and meal.

Such is life! Some people are ahead of you and are eating now, laughing at you and talking about how they are smarter, wiser and better than you, how they are well connected, blessed, have money and are enjoying life. You are waiting tirelessly wondering why it's taking so long to breakthrough, You endure mockery and humiliation. Maybe you have contemplated suicide, gone through depression or suffered severe mental anxiety. Do not worry! The owner of the world has seen you and doesn't want you to be served a simple meal like those making mockery. You're waiting long because yours is a special meal. It takes time to prepare. And only chief chefs prepare them.

Wait for your meal and relax. When it comes that laughing party will be silenced for good.

Stay Blessed and enjoy your day.

This is my word of encouragement to YOU today.

Olayemi (c)2018

SEXIS GOOD...

Most downfalls of men are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends.

Sex is a spiritual encounter I stand to be corrected, not every girl has a good spirit,some are demon, some has
poison in between their legs, some are killers and destiny destroyers, be careful. Worst is a man who can't control his sexual urge. A man who can control
his sexuUal urge is a man who can live many years on earth.
1. Having many girlfriends does not make you a man. It only makes you a womanizer and a cheat and a boy.

2.  A real man has only one woman in his life.

3. For the fact that you are good in bed does not make you a man. A real man is the man who does not run away from his responsibility but faces it squarely.

4. You don't need to sag your trousers and walk round the street before girls will love you. Infact it is only small boys that sag trousers and it is premature little girls that fall in love with men who sag trousers.

5. Don't use and dump ladies. Remember the law of karma. Whatever you do, you will receive the reward.

6. If you cannot make her your wife, don't make her a mother. If she can't be your wife don't sleep with her.

7. Do not obey your erection at all times. Most times our erections mislead us to the wrong direction. Control your erection. Don't let your erection control you. If you don't you will have few days on earth with much poverty on you. You may insult me but it doesn't matter to me now, because am done telling you this.

8. It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable. Control your sex urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

9. Do not date a lady because she has sexy curves, boobs and shapes. Those things are just packaging; and packaging can be very deceptive avoid such, don't fall for what's called the irony of social Media.

10. Respect any lady that loves you. Yes, its not easy for a lady to throw her love on you and support your future.

11. Do not beat any woman, even if she is not your wife.

12. Real men don't gossip. Learn to keep secret shared with you by any Lady that is what makes you a man enough to enjoy the comfort of a lady.

13. The world only celebrates successful men. Nobody will celebrate you for having many girlfriends. Therefore what is the benefit? Waste of energy and waste of protein.

14.Marrying a woman doesn't mean she is your property, Treat her with respect ...Make her your queen,love her, honour her and give her a reason to
treat you the same. Remember, what you give is what you get.

Finally Don’t be a cheating man. You’re losing life. You think you are playing the game and winning, but you are actually losing. You can get over on some women but you can’t fool your Creator. You will reap what you sow, so you better start trying to grow good things. Juggling women doesn’t make you a man. 

Being honest, loyal & faithful that's the trademark of a real man. 

May God bless your relationship.

Life Phylosophy

In a mother’s womb were two babies. One asked the other: “Do you believe in life after delivery?” The other replied, “Why, of course. There has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later.” “Nonsense,” said the first. “There is no life after delivery. What kind of life would that be?” The second said, “I don’t know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths. Maybe we will have other senses that we can’t understand now.” The first replied, “That is absurd. Walking is impossible. And eating with our mouths? Ridiculous! The umbilical cord supplies nutrition and everything we need. But the umbilical cord is so short. Life after delivery is to be logically excluded.” The second insisted, “Well I think there is something and maybe it’s different than it is here. Maybe we won’t need this physical cord anymore.” The first replied, “Nonsense. And moreover, if there is life, then why has no one has ever come back from there? Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery there is nothing but darkness and silence and oblivion. It takes us nowhere.” “Well, I don’t know,” said the second, “but certainly we will meet Mother and she will take care of us.” The first replied “Mother? You actually believe in Mother? That’s laughable. If Mother exists then where is She now?” The second said, “She is all around us. We are surrounded by her. We are of Her. It is in Her that we live. Without Her this world would not and could not exist.” Said the first: “Well I don’t see Her, so it is only logical that She doesn’t exist.” To which the second replied, “Sometimes, when you’re in silence and you focus and you really listen, you can perceive Her presence, and you can hear Her loving voice, calling down from above.” — from Olayemi by Pablo J. Luis Molinero.

Gratitude

Hi dearie,

Today, I would like to share with you a short story on gratitude:

One day, a rich dad took his son on a trip.
He wanted to show his son how poor someone can be, to teach his son to appreciate what they have.

They spent time on the farm of a poor family.
On the way home, dad asked, "Did you see how poor they are? What did you learn?".

Son said,
"We have one dog, they have four.
We have pool, they have rivers.
We have lanterns at night, they have stars.
We buy foods, they grow theirs.
We have walls to protect us, they have friends.
We have encyclopedias, they have Bible."

And the son added on, to the amusement of his dad, "Thanks dad for showing me how poor we are."

From this story...I learnt that being rich and wealthy is not solely determined by how much money we have.

Being wealthy, is a matter of perspective.

Today my reader,

Choose to take on a perspective of gratitude...

Because that is what makes you Rich....and see how your world changes with it.

Enjoy

Release Your Past.

Don't be held by a LIMITING BELIEF from the past.

Was it something your teacher or parent once said?
Was it a one-time failure at school that scarred you?
Was it a boss that stuck a finger in your face and say you’re no good?

So (insert your name), today I remind you to shine bright.

And let go of the past.

You are every bit as valuable, smart and incredible as the next person.

You’re capable of so much more the moment you allow yourself to tap into your innate gifts and talents.

As you reflect on this reading, be reminded by how much potential you possessed…

You’re a pearl and the world is your oyster.
YOU’re a diamond in the rough, YOU’re full of potential.

Cheers.

mind

If you had to be 100% honest with yourself -

Do you think it's possible you've been hiding behind beliefs like:

“I’m too old to start over."

“I'm too busy to learn new things."

"I'm not smart/talented/lucky enough to get what I really want."

If you have, there’s something important you need to remember: 

All of these beliefs are simply illusions.

Because no matter where you come from or where you're at right now -

You have the power to transform your beliefs, and in turn, your life with guided meditations, meaning you have to unplug and delete a lot fro your sub-conscious mind.

So, if you feel stuck, stressed, frustrated or undeserving, and you think some of that negativity may be coming from inside you, then quick to guide your mind.

Awesome Gift for You

When embarking on the journey of personal development, keep in mind the following steps:

-Establish the goals you want to reach in all areas of your life

-Look for the weaknesses that need improvement in order for you to reach these goals

-Identify the different opportunities to develop the weaknesses

-Set up your plan of action for improving the weaknesses

-Make time for nurturing your strengths

-Record the outcomes of your development

-Evaluate your outcomes against your goals

Remember, personal development can help you in all the areas of your life and is therefore largely a personal journey, but one that needs to be prioritized.

The benefits are that you grow as a person while growing your skills, you improve your self-awareness, and you boost your confidence.

*Thot of the day:*

*If God has called us to leadership, we’ll be unfulfilled in any other role.

* The call to leadership requires:

1) *Competence.*
We must recognise our gifts, and then channel our energies into where we’re most likely to succeed. *That means acknowledging our limitations and helping equip others to fill them.* To do that, we must be secure.

2) *Courage.*
Scott Peck said, *’The best decision makers are those willing to suffer the most over their decisions but still retain their ability to be decisive.'* Good leaders are not necessarily the cleverest or most creative people, *they're just the ones with the courage to step out and go first.

3) *Clarity.*
Let’s be clear about our goals, even though we’re not certain as to the details.

4) *Coaching.*
Without good coaches we’ll never be as good as we could be. If we’re hoping to learn everything from personal experience, all the best; we’ll have to outlive Methuselah!

5) *Character.*
Character provides the moral authority to bring together the people and resources needed to get the job done. *Our talent has the potential to take us places where our character can't sustain us. That thought should keep us on our knees.*

Cheers.

Simple Secrets to a Happy Life...

Want to find more joy in your everyday life?

Joy is what makes life beautiful. It’s what gets us through challenges and allows light in to illuminate the shadows. Joy heals our wounds, inspires us to greatness, and fills our souls with goodness.

Helen Keller said, “The best and most beautiful things in life cannot be seen, not touched, but are felt in the heart.”

Some of the most beautiful things in life are also the most simplistic.

Here are 9 Tips for a Happy Life:

#1  Don’t be afraid to make mistakes.

#2  Be aware of any negative thoughts you hold about yourself.

#3  Read some good uplifting books.

#4  Make an effort to try and look on the bright side of things.

#5  Learn what is important to you in life.

#6  Focus on the present moment.

#7  Step out of your comfort zone once in a while.

#8  Train yourself to finish what you start.

#9 Realize that setbacks and knocks are just a normal part of life.

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If you had to be 100% honest with yourself...

Do you think it's possible you've been hiding behind beliefs like:

“I’m too old to start over.”

“I'm too busy to learn new things."

"I'm not smart/talented/lucky enough to get what I really want.”

If you have, there’s something important you need to remember:

All of these beliefs are simply illusions.

Because no matter where you come from or where you're at right now -

You have the power to transform your beliefs, and in turn, your life.

Enjoy.