When a man touches a woman's body, he is not just touching her body. It goes MUCH DEEPER than that for a woman but unknown to the man. He is touching parts of her soul-parts as diverse as how she feels about being a mother and a grandmother some day, to what is her favourite ice cream and styles, to how much she loves her pet, and to her opinion of how she will govern her home, make the best out of her husband plus children. The man wants a sexual encounter and love is far from his mind; she desires romance, affection, permanence, commitment, safety, and security.