Never Stop Being Your True Self 

Anytime you act in-authentically or make decisions that don’t serve your best interest, you become further detached from yourself. Life will seem more difficult, because you are in opposition of what your heart truly wants. When you stop thinking about what to be and just BE, that allows you to tap into the natural flow of the universe, and life will start working with you, not against you.
Don’t try to label yourself, over think your words or actions, or limit your expression; all of these will pull you back into the struggle that many people feel because they stifle their uniqueness. As a child, you didn’t even think twice about what to say or do, you just lived. Adopt that same mentality today, and you will feel much more free and in alignment with your true essence. 

Once you fully love yourself and have no problem expressing that to the world, other people will notice. They may feel jealous of you and try to bring you down, but most people will probably look up to you and ask for your advice. By becoming who you were meant to be, you will encourage other people to do the same without having to utter a word to them. 
People can just feel when others are comfortable and happy with themselves, and it opens up a space for other people to be themselves. Do you see how impactful this can be? If everyone acted in accordance with their true nature, our world would reflect a more loving, conscious, vibrant reality. 

When you strip away everything that no longer serves you and all the conditioning from your past about who you should be, you will start to notice that people on a similar vibration come into your world almost effortlessly. As this happens, people who you no longer mesh with will fall to the wayside, and friendships seem much more enjoyable. 
People who have a firm grip on themselves and know what they want from life tend to have deeper, more meaningful connections with others, because they have knocked down all the walls that once imprisoned them. They have freed themselves, and they naturally attract others who live with no limits. 

Everyone came here to accomplish something different, but unless you really know yourself, it will seem much more difficult to figure out your mission. However, as you go within more and let that inner voice speak to you, it will guide you to fulfilling your destiny without you really having to try. The key to being yourself is to not try, not struggle, not demand answers, not beg, not worry, but just BE. 
Then, as you surrender to the universe and rediscover your highest self, it will become very clear what you came here to do. By not living authentically, you will probably work in a job you hate, thinking you have no way out. One huge motivator for being yourself should be getting to follow your purpose in life and not clocking in hours at a job that feels like drudgery to you. 

If you live in any way that goes against your soul, you will probably make hurried, poor decisions about your life and end up feeling stuck. Stepping into your own light will lift the veil that once concealed the better parts of life, allowing you to make more informed decisions that align with your vibration. When you give in to societal norms and follow the herd, you will probably put too much weight in other’s opinions rather than listening to what your own heart wants. 
For example, your family might want you to go to medical school because your dad is a doctor, and you know that isn’t your passion. But, you go anyway, because you believe that you will feel happier by satisfying them. 


Your Bigger Dream

What is your dream?

How big is your dream?

Do you have a dream that’s bigger than you? If not, why not?

Why not dream one size bigger?

Remember, you can achieve significant things—if you invite others to help you.

How have you done at finding people to partner with you in achieving your dream?

I believe your first step is to approach people who are already making a difference in their own way. Then you need to communicate clearly about your big dream. Paint a picture of the significance story you’d like to write together.

And invite them to join you.

Together, you can achieve great things and make a great change in your world.


GirlsAffair: The CHANGE you need?

GirlsAffair: The CHANGE you need?: Hello Everyone,  It's GirlsAffair forum, and I want to ask you.  Have you ever hit a point in your life where you just fel...

The CHANGE you need?

Hello Everyone, 

It's GirlsAffair forum, and I want to ask you. 

Have you ever hit a point in your life where you just felt STUCK?

You know, a moment where you just want things to be different?

I often get emails from people who feel frustrated with where they are in life and they simply don’t know how to move forward.

If you ever ask yourself these questions and aren’t happy with your answers…

‘Do I enjoy my life everyday?’ 
‘Am I happy with my job/career?’
‘Am I making a difference?’ 
‘Is there anything holding me back?’

… Then make sure you implement these 2 strategies to spring your life into action starting today:

Strategy 1 - Declutter

Yes, it’s important that you organize your closet, get rid of old stuff and clean your inbox, but it’s most important todeclutter your thoughts and ensure you have a positive mindset that’s aligned with your current goals. 

Let go of your emotional baggage, and let go of toxic people that bring you down… rather seek the company of like-minded individuals that share your passions and inspire you to be better.

Strategy 2 - Embrace change 

If you’re not satisfied with your relationships, your weight, your job, or your life in general, take a step today towards ‘that goal’ you’ve been putting off (you know the one)!

Step out of your comfort zone and connect with new people, travel to a different place, or start looking for a job that excites you if you’re not loving your current career.

This may sound scary at first, but once you embrace this invitation to review your life and renew yourself, you’ll find yourself in a world of positivity.