GirlsAffair: 2016-02-21

3 Types of People you Need to Eliminate From Your Life.

The key to success in life is to have the right people around you. You can possess all the confidence, the motivation, and the resilience in the world, but if you don’t surround yourself with people that build you up, that compliment your skill set, and make you a better person everyday, then you may never arrive at your desired destination, and in a worst-case scenario, you may end up in the opposite direction of your dreams.

There are all kinds of people in this world: the good, the bad, and the destructive. People will flock for your attention at different phases of your life, but at the end of the day you have to be the one to decide who will remain in your inner circle. If you choose people that are negative and don’t believe in your dreams, then how do you think you will ever achieve anything positive in your life? It literally doesn’t make any sense.

If you’re ready to take your life to another level and reach your true potential, then you need to begin by eliminating these 3 types of toxic people from your life. It may be hard to do in the early stages, but with time you’ll realize how much of a difference it really makes in the end.

#1: The Naysayer

The naysayer is just a fancy word used to describe an extremely pessimistic person. Naysayers are rarely in a good mood, unless they are enjoying someone else’s misfortune. Even though good things happen to them, they choose to see the negative side of every situation, and because of this, they try to drag others down with them. Naysayers are known for complaining all the time, for cursing their luck, and for finding problems where others find solutions. If you want to succeed, steer clear of this type of person.

#2: The Critic

Judgemental people are difficult to have around, because you never feel like you can be completely yourself without getting criticized. With judgemental people, every move you make has the potential to be scrutinized and placed under a microscope. If you feel uncomfortable around someone, chances are they are the judgemental type. If that’s the case, it’s time to say goodbye if you want to have greater happiness and abundance in your life.

#3: The Manipulator

Manipulative people will do everything in their power to get you to side with them or make a decision that hurts you and benefits them. They are typically very unsupportive and have selfish desires 24/7. If you want someone that will help you stay on the path to achieve your goals, don’t stay close friends with a manipulator.

Best Wishes.

8 Signs Your Love Is Dying a Natural Death

All relationships go through ups and downs which can lead to estrangement and even breakups if care is not taking. But this could be avoided if we realized our relationship was going south with enough time to evaluate the situation and find alternatives.

I believe that if you see the signs, you can prevent a disaster. With a little effort, you can detect the signs that your relationship is cooling, and, instead, return to the tropical paradise of loving and being loved. So don’t get discouraged, read the signs that your love is dwindling and start your romance recovery mode.

1. You stop holding hands

One day you’ll notice that when you’re walking together there’s no contact. You no longer hold hands as you walk down the street.

2. Farewell to spontaneity

When you’re in love, you call your loved one often just to know how he is, or send her a message with a kiss or a heart. But when love diminishes, these gestures are over.

3. Passionate kisses are gone

This is one of the most obvious symptoms. Instead of passionate kissing, you resort to a brush on the lips or cheek. You’re definitely not looking to break the Guinness World Record longest kiss anymore.

4. You avoid spending time together

When you’re in love, a trip to the store to buy bread together becomes romantic. Pay attention to when you stop having a good time together.

5. The word “discussion” is your new best friend

The enemy of love is the “discussion;” it seeks to destroy at all costs and its techniques are lethal. If you are unable to spend a day without arguing, then there is no doubt that the flame of your love is dwindling.

6. No more knowing glances

A knowing glance is when words are needed but with just a look, you know what your spouse is thinking. If love is in crisis, the frequency of these looks not only decreases, but you also stop understanding what their looks mean.

7. Icy sheets

Each of you have begun to slide to his or her side of the bed. Loving actions increasingly cool as you start leaving a gap in the middle of the bed.

8. Time together is a martyrdom

When we don’t like doing something, everything about it seems wrong. In the same way, when we stop wanting our partner, it becomes impossible to enjoy time together.

How many of these signs do have in your relationship? Any of these are a sign that something bad is happening in your relationship. But don’t worry. If you detect them now you have time to rekindle the flame of love.

Best Wishes.

Your Success Secret

Let’s not blame “Who took over Whose business.” It’s only because people are more adjustable and adaptable to new ideas and changes in the world.

DISCOVER 5 D’S TO ADDING VALUE TO YOUR LIFE

1. Discover better ways to do things.

2. Disregard your background-your background is not a reason for your back to be on the ground.

3. Distinguish yourself-what are you good with/at/on? Question everything; know your natural habitat.

4. Deliver excellence-timely submission of assignments.

5. Drive-through situations-keep your dreams alive, every challenge in life is a phase in life.

In conclusion, The true value of a human being is determined primarily by how he has attained liberation from the self.

Try to become not a man of success, but rather to become a man of value…

Best Wishes