6 STAGES OF A WOMAN'S LIFE

At what stage in a woman's life are you? Everybody knows that life is difficult but being a woman can actually be particularly complex. Let's unfold the complexity of every woman's stage and what she had to contend with in every stages of her growth.

Stage1: Growing Up.
This is the transition from childhood to adulthood. This usually begin from the age of 12, 13 & 14, but recent studies shows adulthood begin from age 8 & 10, due to technology advancement and the type of food consumption children eat this days which speed up their hormonal functions. Thus, the beginning of a woman's problems, breast filling/ protruding out, mestruation and pimples.


Next, of course is the inevitable. Once a girl starts growing up, she starts meeting boys which in turn start noticing her beauty plus the curves. As the girl grows into an adolescent she may at this point fall in love for the first time in her life. Now, is the confusion of who to like, what to do, what not to do plus the inevitable question of sex and virginity. Also, at this point in a girls life she might be secretive, moody nor very hostile to her parents most especially the mother, though this is not unexpected because to be honest the girl is still really trying to find nor discover herself by trying to differentiate between her mother's moral lessons, school morals, what she had read and discuss with her friends. Belief me, a tough time of decision making and lots of 'WH' questions on her head. But, this is the stage where mothers really need to perform their motherhood roles in helping the little damsel to discover who she really is and her place in the society.

Stage 3: Breaking Up
This is usually the most painful stage of all. This point in time is bittersweet because emotions and romance have been attached into friendship which usually results into breakups. Reason being that, at this stage the girl is mentally immature, it might be very painful but time heals everything.

Stage 4: Marriage
By this time, a lady is past 22 of age and the question of marriage pops up several times from the society, friends, and family may begin pressurizing. For some, marriage means the ultimate triumph in life but there are several other challenges at this point in life. Not only is there a question of whom to marry and when, there is the question of carrier, how to make money and societal acceptance. Also, if you are married, you are rewarded with the ardous task of balancing husband, careers, in- laws, house choices et cetera.

Stage 5: Having Children
This brings quite a sudden change in a woman's life. Now, there is more than one responsibility in your life. There is nine months pregnancy to carry, babies to nurse, mouths to feed to satisfaction, as well as husband to pamper and a home to manage. How to cope? Beings mother and a wife is 24 hours a day, 7 days a week job without leave and the beauty of it is that, it's for as life time.

Stage6: Growing Old
Eventually it happens to everyone. First you start putting in weight, then the wrinkles come, hair turns grey, breast start cagging, tummy bulging and bones weakens gradually. Hmmh! Being a woman is not an easy task.

So, what stage are you in? Remember, to always make the best out of every stage you find yourself.