Sex is an intimate act and most couples consider it as the ultimate way to build intimacy. But there’s more to it if you are in a long term steady relationship. But you don’t always need to be naked to develop the bond and build intimacy.
Here are simple things that can help build intimacy between the two of you without involving sex’:
Cuddling: Not spooning or the foreplay kind cuddling but just being close to each other before going to bed or on a lazy Sunday morning is an amazing way to feel close. Curl up on the couch while watching your favourite movie or series.
Keep your phone away: That is the best thing you can do in this age for your partner. Keep all gadgets away, put your phone on silent mode if need be and just be together. Focus on each other and make them feel that they matter the most.
Soulful conversations: Spare some time during the day for heart-to-heart talk with your partner. Don’t discuss responsibilities, kids, future or an irate client that you came across. Talk about the two of you, bring back old memories, and appreciate each other.
Care: Show your affection, support your partner because that’s what makes them feel cared for. Make note of little things that matter to them. Give them a break from daily routine someday, or bring flowers while on your way back home or make their favourite coffee or food on a regular day. You don’t need occasions to show your care. Showing it on other days builds a stronger bond.
Work together: Not in the same office but work as a team. Join her for grocery shopping, tag along with him to watch a game or go to the gym together. Working out or exercising together is an excellent way to build intimacy too.
Play board games: Remember how you made good friends as kids while playing games. Bond with your partner with board games, they need not always be strip poker or other Sex games but just monopoly or Pictionary is also a lot of fun. Moreover, it’s like spending quality time with each other.
Night stroll: If you are busy during the day, spend some time with each other during a night stroll. Walk hand in hand, chatting about random things, smile, laugh and share your feelings. You’ll feel so much closer to each other.
Cook dinner together, listen to music or even dance while doing so. Offering a helping hand in the kitchen is a great way to bond with your partner and show that you care.
Love + Respect
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