Skill Integration.

Greetings,

I think we would all agree that learning a new and 

potentially life changing skill can be pretty exciting. 

But let’s be honest here… 

There’s a huge difference between learning a new 

skill and actually integrating that skill into your life. 

In fact, this is the number one reason why people 

with really good intentions still fail to turn new skills into results 97% of the time. 

That’s where habit triggers can change everything. 

You see, it takes about 21 days to turn a new skill into 

a habit. 

This is the critical "make it or break it" phase! During this 21 day integration stage you need some way to trigger yourself into performing that new skill 

repeatedly until it becomes almost automatic. 

That’s when it becomes a habit, and that’s when you 

start to see results. Until then it’s just academic. 

So, now you know how habit triggers work and why they are so important to your success in life and in 

business. 

They are the secret tool that will get you from wanting to do something to improve your life, to actually doing it consistently enough to produce meaningful results so that you can start living a more successful life. That’s it for now!

 Until next time, live life to the full, 

 Yhemmy.

 

GirlsAffair: Think Outside The Box.

GirlsAffair: Think Outside The Box.: Yhemmy was on to something when he wrote... “Always the beautiful  answer who asks a more beautiful question.” So here we are...elev...

Think Outside The Box.

Yhemmy was on to something when he wrote...

“Always the beautiful answer who asks a more beautiful question.”

So here we are...eleven days into the New Year, and if you're looking to make history in 2016 rather than repeat it...if you want to make this the best year of your life, than you're going to want take stock of what's transpired.

1. What exactly have you accomplished in the first ten days of 2016?

2. Are you off to a fast start...or a slow one and why?

3. Have you followed through on your resolutions...or already betrayed them?

4. Do you even have a clear set of goals...along with a written, deadline driven plan?

These happen to be outstanding questions to avoid quickly losing this one window of opportunity to start the year in the best way possible...which is fast, focused and driving demonstrable results.

Hold these questions not as an opportunity to beat yourself up, but as a chance to find new insights and better ways to improve your performance.

Also, as you reflect on these questions...think outside the box.

It will help you to understand why you need to do things differently, and how to Challenge yourself to truly make this the best year of your life.

Everything Counts!

GirlsAffair: Hapiness

GirlsAffair: Hapiness: Once upon a time, a group of 50 people attended a seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and started giving each person a balloon. Each on...

Hapiness

Once upon a time, a group of 50 people attended a seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and started giving each person a balloon. Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were collected and put in another room. 

Now, these delegates were let in that room and asked to find the balloon which had their respective names written on within 5 minutes. Everyone was frantically searching for their names,pushing and colliding with each other,and there was utter chaos. At the end of 5 minutes,no one could find their own 

balloons. 

Now, each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the person whose name was written on it. Within minutes everyone had their own 

balloons.

The speaker began: "This is exactly what is happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is. Our happiness lies in the happiness of other Give them their happiness and you will get 

your own happiness too. And this is the purpose of human life... 

Learn to put a smile on one's face, and you will also smile in due season...

Enjoy.

Setting Goals

People all over the world are making resolutions, setting big goals and intentions, picking their word for the year... All of which are great things to do. But if you don't know what to do once you've made your goals or set your intentions, your big dreams can fall short. In fact, in most cases, they do. 

Setting goals is the way you turn imaginations into memories, and once you do, you need to celebrate them. 

Goals are as unique as we are. They should reflect our unique personality and passions. And we arrive at them via different avenues. 

But if you don’t have a plan of action to go alongside your goals, it doesn’t matter how strong of a manifester you are. You need to take action. 

If you want to dream until the day you die, you need to set goals that take a lifetime to achieve. 

And it’s never too late to start. 

With specific goals, support, and an action plan… 

Your 2016 is going to be your best year yet! 

Cheers! 

And, remember… 

People need our help. Let’s make a lasting impact in the life of people in our community!

Happy New Year

Happy New Year Dearie!

I hope 2016 is going to be a great year for you.  A year in which you have great achievements.  A prosperous year.  A year of joy, peace and love!

Kind regards

Olayemi.

GirlsAffair: Set Goals

GirlsAffair: Set Goals: The new year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals. Cheers...

Set Goals

The new year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals.

Cheers. 

Ponder on it.

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A teacher asked her students to bring some tomatoes in a plastic bag to school. Each tomato was to be given a name of the person whom that student hated.

This way, the number of tomatoes would be equal to the number of persons each student hated.

On the decided day, the children brought their tomatoes well addressed. Some had two, some had three and some had  five, some even had 20 tomatoes in accordance with the number of pple each student hated.

The teacher told them they were to carry the tomatoes with them everywhere they went for the next 2 weeks.
As the days passed, the students started to complain about the spoilt and smelly tomatoes. Students who had many tomatoes complained it was very heavy to carry and the smell was too much.
After 1 week, the teacher asked the students "How did you feel this week?"
The Children complained of the smell & heavy weight of the tomatoes especially those who carried more tomatoes.
The teacher said, "This is very similar to what you carry in your heart when you don't like some people. Hatred makes the heart unhealthy and you carry that hatred everywhere.
If you can't bear the smell of spoilt tomatoes for a week, imagine the impact on your heart that you carry throughout your life !."

The Heart is a beautiful garden that needs regular cleaning of unwanted weeds.
Forgive those who have angered you.
This makes room for storing good things..

Get better, not bitter

May the good Lord strengthen us so that we can forgive those who wrong us and take away every hatred we have in our hearts.

👉 As the year is coming to an end, forgive anyone who has offended you. Say sorry to those you've offended too and DO NOT carry your hurts and pain of others into the New Year.

Imagine how your heart will be🙊

Have a fresh start in the new year.

Cheers.