A Question For You

@ PF - Random Thoughts – How are you?

I went on my daily brisk walk today and thought through the last 24hours and the Valentine rush on my way back.  So, this morning, I have a question for you -"How are you?"

Yes! The 24hours is over and I am sure you must have felt so loved judging by the Val gifts and all that made you feel so special yesterday. Well, the special day is over, so how are you this morning?

As a single babe, he took you out and showered you with all forms of gifts that blew your underwears away. So, how are you now that he has done what he always wanted to do?

So, you did not receive any gift from any loved one because there was none that really cared about you and this made your Valentine’s day boring compared to the past ones, but how are you this morning?

I am sure you have neither grown taller nor grown a bigger nose. Maybe you have a new collection of gifts but have you grown wiser and smarter? How much love do you feel for yourself and for the world around you this morning?

Would you still feel loved or in love if the next show of affection from your spouse happens in the next 365 days? Trust me as you think in your heart so are you. This means your total well being is a reflection of your mental well being.

Why don’t you wrap your arms around yourself tightly this morning and say to yourself "Love is who I am not just what I do or what is done to me. I am in love with myself because I am simply the best of my kind."

Gifts or no gift; Val or no Val, remaining intact is all that matters and loving yourself is the heart of the matter.

Best Wishes.

GirlsAffair: Happy Valentine's Day

GirlsAffair: Happy Valentine's Day: The only Valentine that ever exist is in GOD Today's Topic: What Love is not 1. Love is not sex. 2. Love is not beauty or handsom...

Happy Valentine's Day

The only Valentine that ever exist is in GOD

Today's Topic: What Love is not

1. Love is not sex.
2. Love is not beauty or handsomeness.
3. Love is not cheap.
4. Love is not sampling.
5. Love is not secret, Love is open.
6. Love is not fame or family background.
7. Love is not just for the sweet times alone but also for the tough times.
8. Love is not blind.
9. Love is not pretense or deceitful.

Every man that is still cleaving to his parents after marriage is not normal
You must leave to cleave to your wife.

Any man that loves you will not tell you to go out of the order of your Creator.

Every sex outside marriage will destroy your destiny
God is angry with many people because destinies are altered due to sex

Why are you selling your DESTINY cheaply?

If you marry beauty, you may be marrying wrongly
Beauty can never satisfy you

For every LOVE in life, you must be ready to pay for it.

Any man that samples does not love.

If you are sampling around, you are an enemy of progress.

It is better to be late and end up in a sweet home.

If you don't see future in a man, don't marry him.

Many are FALLING in love instead of STANDING in love.

The best love in life is the LOVE OF JESUS.

Happy Valentine's Day.

GirlsAffair: Your Life

GirlsAffair: Your Life: Hello Everyone,  Sometimes we get so caught up in the day-to-day  business of life that our thinking gets a little skewed.  So,...

Your Life

Hello Everyone, 

Sometimes we get so caught up in the day-to-day 

business of life that our thinking gets a little skewed. 

So, today's message is just a little reminder to help 

you stay on track. 

Please remember: 

Your life is a unique and individual 

journey, it belongs to you and you alone. 

No one is ahead of you or behind you and you are 

exactly where you need to be. 

So, embrace the lessons life teaches you. 

Use what you learn to create a better reality for yourself and those around you.  

 Life is not a contest, it's an adventure. 

 Enjoy it. 

 Until next time, 

 Yhemmy. 

Tips to Push Yourself to Do More and Be More This Month...

GirlsAffair is committed to help her readers build, plan and achieve your biggest personal and professional goals, and we know that even if you have the drive to succeed, you still need bursts of motivation along the way, inspiration to keep you going. That's where our monthly action plan (this!) comes in.

Your Action Plan is a to-do list that will get you unstuck, up and moving, sticking to goals and making new ones. It’s made up of 10 tips and tricks from the magazine—things you can do right now to boost your productivity, mood and confidence, ways to improve yourself, to be a better you and have a better life. And it’s coming your way every month.

Ready? Let’s get started!

1. Get Moving

Create a workout plan that fits you, and commit to it throughout the week. Don't forget to warm up properly!

2. Quit Your Whinin'

For the rest of the day, try not to complain. Focus on staying positive and appreciating what you have.

3. Measure Up

Before you leave work this evening, write down benchmarks you can use to track your progress. These checkpoints will keep you accountable for reaching your objectives.

4. Chitchat

By the end of the week, catch up with a friend you haven't talked to in a while. See how conversation can improve your mood.

5. Ticktock

Starting now, track how you're spending your time. Then try to find ways you can increase your productivity by making better use at the margins.

6. Find a Spark

Before you call it a night, think about what you're passionate about. Brainstorm different ways you can use your talents.

7. No Small Talk

Tomorrow morning, skip your water cooler talk and get a head start on your day by making your first hour at work as productive as possible.

8. Find Your Mantra

Pick a motto that inspires you, write it down and put it someplace where you'll see it every day to make meaning to you. Do this right now.

9. Speak Up

Start saying your goals out loud. This way, you'll be more likely to manifest your dreams. Begin this habit today.

10. Jump the Hurdles

What obstacles are stopping you from reaching your goals? Pause immediately to think about ways you can overcome them, and set up a plan to tackle each one.

11. Harness your Thinking 

Your thoughts are your emotions that drives your day. Once you harness this, your are on your way to success!

Remember, If you truly want to change some aspects of your life, some of your actions, thinking, and vocabulary need to change.

Best Wishes.

GirlsAffair: Secure Your Time

GirlsAffair: Secure Your Time: A LESSON ABOUT TIME - from my good friend  Kenya is two hours ahead of Nigeria, It does not mean that Nigeria is slow and it does n...

Secure Your Time

A LESSON ABOUT TIME - from my good friend 

Kenya is two hours ahead of Nigeria, It does not mean that Nigeria is slow and it does not mean that Kenya is faster than Nigeria. Both countries are working based on "Time Zone".

•There's one that married as a virgin and 'waited' ten years before having a child yet there is another who had series of abortions before marriage yet gave birth after nine months.

•There is one who graduated at the age of 22 but waited 5 years before securing a job, yet there is another who graduated at the age of 27 and secured employment immediately.

•There is one who became a CEO at the age of 25 and died at the age of 50, there is another who became a CEO at the age of 50 and lived to 90.

Both worked based on 'Time Zone' and some just happen to have everything work fast for them.

Work based on God's timing for your life and stay firm in your  'lane'.

Even if it appears your Colleagues, friends, associates, younger one(s) might have gone ahead of you. Don't envy them, it's their 'Time Zone' yours too will come.

•Just hold on and be strong, it won't be long and everything is gonna be alright.

"I returned and saw under the sun that the race

is not to the swift nor the battle to the wise nor

riches to men of understanding nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance

happeneth to them all"

Ecclesiastes 9:11.

Trust God will guide u through the year, even as you rely on Him daily, because it is only HE who

makes everything beautiful in His time.

How heavy is this glass of water?

"A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?” Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz. She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes. ” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.” 

Remember to put the glass down.

This will add value to you

Imbibe these 5 into your daily plan.

#1. Shatter your mental limits/fears so you install a mindset that is undefeatable. 

#2. Release the past and unleash your highest happiness for this year and the rest of your life. 

#3. Get more real work done in a week than most people get done in three months (so you grow your prosperity, performance and impact). 

#4. Get into the best fitness and finest energy of your life to date. 

#5. Step into a way of living that is magical, so you wake up every morning feeling uncommonly grateful, generous and free. 

Best Wishes.